What Men Want
Relatively an easy subject right? I’m 36 and I see posts on social media consistently from women my own age, consistently describing how horrible men are because they are insufficient in one area or another or they are typical douchebags. They don’t take time to self-reflect and ask themselves what’s wrong with them? Why are they consistently left for something younger and shinier. Maybe they are right, maybe it’s the man, but the consistent crying and complaining makes me wonder what is wrong with them.
Men are not complicated human beings, they want no drama, they want sex, they want food and they want peace. Some men are frank and will tell you exactly what they want, others will lie and tell you what you want to hear and others will lie, scheme and convince you they are something they are not. Yet, the last type is the easiest to spot, you simply must accept who they are and not what they are telling you. There are always signs a man is full of shit, you just need to accept it and not pretend you don’t see it. If you accept and understand it, you will save yourself a shit load of disappointment and heartache.
When a person tells you who they are, accept that, that’s what I have done, a liar is a liar, a thief is a thief, and so on. Accept it and life is easy, don’t accept it and life gets very complicated. The man who tells you the truth will tell you the whole truth or he is too full of shit. Half-hearted truths are not complete truths and this type of man is the third mentioned man above. The one who tells you what you want to hear to get what he wants is the most obvious scumbag, because he is the least confident and the one you should waste the least amount of time on. Myself I prefer to be honest only because I have been the other type of men and that shit is complicated and creates issues that bring drama and stupidity. It’s self-serving to lie, cheat and be something you are not, while it’s not self-serving to be yourself.
Be yourself and be free, be honest and keep shit easy.